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Quote this post and reply to it Post#1 @ 03-11-04 , 09:07 PM

My not-so-close counsin recently had a last minute wedding shower that I was invited to three days before. Because she was family I felt obligated to go and canceled plans I already had made.

The first issue is, I never received a thank you note for the shower gift.

On top of that, wedding invitations were hand delivered. My parents received an invitation for them plus family (which would be me and my sister). My sister and I each have are own families, but we did not receive invitations ourselves.

I don't know what to do. I'm offended that I didn't receive a thank you for the shower that I went out of my way to attend, and now I'm not even worth the cost of an invitation?

Should I go to the wedding, bring a date or my child? Do I take a gift for which I will probably not receive a thank you note?

I'm at a loss. Any advice?


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I am so sorry to hear that. I would be quite upset too if I had sacrificed so much to attend the shower and didn't get a thank you card.

In my humble opinion, your politeness should not be contingent on the politeness of others. Perhaps it's better to do what you would do if she had behaved properly.

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